However, it is important to note that a lie manipulates a situation and a person's thoughts; even a lie that is told with innocent intentions. What we say and do has an effect on others and even well-intended lies are a form of manipulation.
A Matter of Trust. Lying creates an uncomfortable situation because we expect others to treat us honorably and tell the truth. We expect not to be lied to and when the situation occurs, we lose faith and trust in the other person. There are some people typically those with certain personality disorders who lie frequently and do not care about the effects of their lies. This type of person also typically does not care about the treatment he receives from other people. Most people, however, care how others treat them and knowing they were lied to can be a breach of trust, depending on the gravity of the lie.
Our perception can affect our acceptance of lying and the consequences of the lie itself. For example, many people believe politicians lie. Since it is expected, the lies are often accepted. The same applies to used-car salespersons. Few people are affected by the breach of trust that might occur when these people lie and life goes on, with little upset.
Compulsive and Pathological Lying A more serious problem with lies occurs when lying becomes compulsive or pathological. A compulsive liar uses lies as a way of life. Lying for any situation or no reason takes the place of honesty. A compulsive liar lies because it serves the person in some odd way and he takes comfort in lies. Compulsive lying is often accompanied by other personality disorders like narcissism. While the person delving into compulsive lies feels secure, the lies often hurt and damage relationships, family and friends.
Compulsive lying is an addiction and becomes difficult to stop once it has become a way of life. A pathological liar lies constantly to get what he wants, caring little for who gets hurt along the way. Considered a coping mechanism, pathological liars often exhibit other personality disorders.
Words that describe a pathological liar are deceptive, manipulative and selfish. Pathological liars actually believe their own lies, but may change the story from telling to telling. Others realize the lie, but the liar often does not and has no remorse. She will often make up things as she goes and seldom plans out a lie. Once told, she will defend the lie and rarely admit that she told a lie.
The lies of a pathological liar can be absurd such as saying she was in the park people-watching and saw a crime take place, when in reality she was shopping with a friend. Dealing with a compulsive or pathological liar is enough to try the patience of loved ones.
The compulsive lying is a habit and pathological lying is an identity disorder. The clues may be body language, facial expressions or what the person actually says. Frontotemporal dementia is a form of dementia that affects the frontal and temporal brain regions and causes changes in behavior and language. Pathological lies are compulsive and may start small. The lies can gradually become more elaborate and dramatic, particularly if they are necessary to cover up for an earlier lie.
They often become complicated by unnecessary amounts of detail. People who lie frequently are not necessarily pathological liars. The most distinguishing feature of a pathological lie is that it does not have a motive.
Therefore, a person who frequently exaggerates stories to make themselves appear more interesting or consistently lies to cover up mistakes that they have made is unlikely to be pathologically lying. These are clear motives that advance particular interests. Pathological lies are easy for others to verify, which can ultimately be harmful to the person who tells them. For example, the individual may make false accusations or grandiose claims about their past that are simple for others to check.
Pathological lying is not a formal diagnosis, but a doctor or therapist may recognize the behavior as a sign of another underlying condition, such as a personality disorder or factitious disorder. These disorders include overlapping symptoms, including compulsive lying.
People with these conditions also display other signs. It is possible for pathological lying to be an independent symptom, as some people engage in pathological lying without having any underlying medical condition. It can be challenging for a doctor to determine whether someone is engaging in pathological lying because there are no psychological or biological tests for it. To diagnose most mental health conditions, a doctor will use a clinical interview.
If the person is not honest about their lying, it could be necessary for the doctor to talk with family members or friends to help identify patterns of pathological lying. Coping with someone who lies pathologically can be challenging. Forming and maintaining a trusting relationship with this person can take time and patience. It is important to remember that the person may not intend to cause harm or benefit from these lies. Pathological lying can be a compulsion, and it often leads to negative consequences for the person telling the lies.
Therefore, try to avoid responding angrily or blaming them for the lies. It is also helpful to be aware that pathological lying may be a sign of an underlying mental health condition. Talking to the person about whether they have any other symptoms can help them identify the problem and seek help from a doctor or therapist. If a doctor suspects that an underlying condition is causing the lying, they may suggest treatment for that condition. As pathological lying can be harmful to others, a doctor may also suggest therapy for those close to the individual.
A therapist will work with them to help them manage their responses to the problem. Pathological lying is when a person compulsively lies without a clear motive for doing so. The lies may become elaborate and detailed, but they are often easy to verify. Let them know that you value them for who they really are.
Without judgment or shaming, suggest that they consider professional help and let them know your suggestion comes from genuine concern for their well-being. A pathological liar is an excellent storyteller and performer. They know how to captivate their audience by telling elaborate and fantastic stories while being very animated.
Along with knowing how to weave and express a detailed story, people are also fascinated by what drives a person to lie. Diagnosing a pathological liar can be difficult because of the many possible causes of the behavior. Some professionals use a polygraph , also known as a lie detector test. Some professionals also interview family members and friends when diagnosing a pathological liar.
Treatment will depend on whether or not the pathological lying is a symptom of an underlying psychiatric condition. Treatment would include psychotherapy and may also include medication for other issues that might be fueling the behavior, such as drugs used to treat anxiety or depression.
How to empathize and cope with a pathological liar comes down to an understanding of what may be causing this person to lie while being supportive. Encourage them to get the help they need. Experts say a functional MRI is more accurate than a polygraph.
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